Women Who Sell Their Bodies And Their Souls...Then Lie To Themselves And Everyone Else About It - The Rise Of The Female Pimp And The "Half Hooker"
What in the hell EXACTLY is a "half-hooker"?
New York Magazine tries to explain it. The writer is not particularly successful in convincing me or anyone else with half of a brain that these women are not engaging in a high class, celebrity driven, 21st century freakshow, mega-warped materialistic version of prostitution. Every single one of the women presented in this article sure seem to be either a madam, female pimp, hoe for hire or hooker to me.
The basic difference between these women and street pimps is that they are paid on retainer under the bogus banner of "party hosting" instead of actually taking the money directly from the women they procured for their clients. Still sounds like pimping to me.
And the basic difference between these women and street prostitutes is that they are paid for their sexual favors with a wink and nod; a little help with the high end rent, a designer dress or a piece of jewelry, an expensive trip or a rather large check, a gift of course, not a payment for sex instead of a direct down and dirty exchange of cash upfront from their clients. Still sounds like flat-backing to me.
What truly irritates me is that women who are forced to sell their bodies on the streets are forced to do so out of need; a need to eat, pay the bills, feed a drug habit, take care of their children, to survive and these so-called "half-hookers" are doing this pointless self-prostitution for kicks, for fun, for a wild time while they're young. It's disgusting and it's salacious.
And a street prostitute is sure in the hell more credible and honest. She knows what she's doing. And a street pimp will lie about his profession, but that's part of the damn gig. Yet, these "party hosts" and "half-hookers" are truly something else; yes, I have sex for money, but I'm not a prostitute. Don't know and don't care if the men I'm running around with are married, but I want to be married someday. Don't call me a madam, even though I find women to entertain men, to have sex with men. Who's zooming who here?
And not only are these women flat-out dishonest and delusional about what they are doing, they want to paint themselves as sympathetic figures. They want to sound in control and empowered, but in the end, they are nothing but sell-outs to a fleeting moment of phony celebrity status.
8 comments:
good points! WTF is a half-hooker?!
It sounds like a bunch of mess to me.. I don't even know why they would even write about this.
A sin is a sin no matter how you word it. I don't think glamorizing this is appropriate. I see why so many are delusional.
I have never heard of such nonsense in my life. A half hooker is something someone made up to make what sounds like sex for sale sound respectable.
Agreed...The part that irritates me is the romanticizing of their behavior. SMDH like you said, we all know that they are doing this for the kicks AND 9/10 the men they are sleeping with are older and married.
Maybe they are "half-hookers" because they only give half of it up? I don't know which half...
Or, because they have to spend the other half of their time pimpin' themselves?
Because they look for men who are half-stupid?
I don't know, woman!
song currently stuck in my head: "could heaven ever be like this" - idris muhummad
I guess it's all about what let's you fall asleep at night and this is doing it for some of these ladies. Sex for money or any other form of payment is a type of prostitution.
Tiffany
http://liferequiresmorechocolate.blogspot.com
Let's not get it twisted. This "Half-Hooker" term is only coming into play because majority of these girls getting caught in most of these high profile scandals are WHITE girls from middle or upper-class families.
This leeway is not going to be given to other groups of women, especially BLACK WOMEN.
Also, I won't be surprised if very soon there will be a new psychological term and supporting research to excuse away the immoral behavior of these women in these class groups that don't need to be sleeping around for money but chose to.
NIjaG,
Thanks for clarifying how the RACE and CLASS of these "half hookers" comes into play in this REDEFINITION of prostitution.
I was waiting for someone to make this point.
I'm so sick and tired of the DOUBLE STANDARD that American society has when it comes to BW's sexuality (and its misuse)and WW's sexuality (and its misuse).
It's not surprising that American society is trying to accomodate the GRATUITOUS sex crimes of upper and middle class WW when we all know they wouldn't do this for BW.
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